To my Brother and Sister,

It no longer breaks my heart that I have to do what I am about to do. I love you both, but I can no longer allow you to hurt me. You have done and said things to me for the last time. I am none of your business and what you do or say to or about me is none of my business.
Ever since Mom died, you have left me out of family gatherings of sorts.  Whether they be the two of you, including your wife and son, or just the family as a whole. Brother, family members had asked you several times to bring me along with you to their homes on several occasions and you chose not to involve me. You took that not only away from me but them as well. You had no right to make such a decision. But you did and I give that to you. You are responsible for your decisions and behaviors, not me. The horrible things that you had said to me through your wife's Facebook in an email, that is how  you feel about yourself first. See the way you feel about yourself reflects on your opinion of others. If you think of yourself in a positive way, your thoughts of others will be positive also. Brother, you always were negative and so shall your whole life be too. But that is the way that you are and have always been. I chose no to be that way. Yes, things in life can be negative and exhausting at times. It's how we rise above them that counts.
And now, my little Sister. For some reason I have always allowed myself to be available to you when you were down and out. I am the only person that never put you down and turned my back on you when others were so willing to do so. You unfortunately did so to me. When others talked shit on you; you own family members and friends, I always stood up for you and our Brother as well. It is so ironic to me that same people that kept cutting the two of you down, even the two of you about each other, are the same people that put you down continuously you  get together and have fun with all of the time.
Well, now I am proud to say that I have a new life and many people in my life that don't have the same negative intentions toward me that the two of you do.
I have said my peace and I am done with this and the both of you. Just remember, you chose to do this not me. So any feelings of animosity towards what I am saying, you are responsible for on your own behalf.
Goodbye to you both, I do wish all the best to you.

Marty.